Nikkiema Rai
Nikkiema
Rai
Year of training:
2019
Related qualification:
Sexological Bodywork
How many and what type of workshops/classes have you previously facilitated?
Dozens (unsure exact number)
I have hosted self pleasure circles both women only and mixed gender. I have ran womens circles, and temple nights. I have also hosted group embodiment workshops, breathwork and meditation workshops. Play and exploration workshops. Shadow work circles including sexual shadow work. Practitioner trainings.
What qualities do you bring to your facilitation?
Permission, presence, and compassion are three core pillars I bring to every space I facilitate. I am very grounded, and accepting, and always hold a space of safety and non judgment for people to open into and explore. As a facilitator I prioritise safety (with an awareness of trigger and trauma responses), curiosity, and fun - because I believe these all go hand in hand.
What relevant skills and experience/qualifications do you have in addition to Sexological Bodywork?
Self Pleasure Practitioner, Advanced Leadership Training (self pleasure), Facilitator at INPI, Erotic Mysteries training, Shadow Tantricka, NLP master certification.
Facilitator Bio
Nikkiema Rai is a Somatic Sexologist and Self Discovery Coach. She is a Sexological Bodyworker, speaker, and internationally celebrated workshop presenter. She has studied, worked and coached in the sexuality industry for over 8 years now, and during that time, she has facilitated at some of the most pioneering sexuality schools in the world, hosted dozens of pleasure activation circles, kink and erotic workshops, women’s and mixed space circles, and self-pleasure workshops, as well as working directly with individuals and couples. Nikkiema is passionate about self discovery, sexuality, relating, and all things somatic, and is best known for her transformational work supporting people to create rich lives and relationships full of depth and connection.
Nikkiema is fascinated by humans, bodies, brains, and how we all navigate this life. She is passionate about creating opportunities for people to connect deeply with themselves and others, and believes our səxuality is one of the most powerful tools we can learn to move with, heal, and integrate in this lifetime.
It's because of this that she thrives on supporting and guiding people to connect with themselves, their sensuality, desire, and sexuality, so they can not only move forward from trauma but also expand into their pleasure, connection, fun and enjoyment in life.
Workshop 1 Name:
Sexuality: A Somatic Awakening
# of participants:
40-50
Workshop 1 duration:
90 Minute Workshop
Equipment needed:
speakers/music connectivity. some cushions for those who need it for the floor parts (not necessary for everyone)
Workshop 1's Intention:
This workshop is intended to be primarily somatically experiential for participants commencing with an introduction and drop-in to the group space to allow connection and safety to be established.
The core of the workshop will be movement based with each participant invited into their own space to follow a series of somatic embodiment practices designed to deeply activate the body as a whole, and specifically the pelvis and genitals, to generate and facilitate connection to their sexual energy and uncover and move blocks or tensions that may have preventing full aliveness of the sexual self.
While this workshop is largely designed for participants to experience on their own (no shared touch), there will be connection on a group level, and opportunities for sharing and reflection in pairs and small groups in closing.
Workshop 1 rough format:
Deep embodiment of personal sexuality and the sexual self through activation of the physical body including the whole pelvis, limbering of the joints and physical body to allow energetic flow and openness
Activation and connection to the sex centres, base and sacral chakras to connect deeply within the body and the sexual energy flow within
Physical activation and release of tension or blocks stored in the area to open sexuality and sexual flow
Emotion activation and release of tension or blocks stored in the area to open sexuality and sexual flow
A juicy, vibrant connection to your sexual self
A toolbox of somatic activation techniques to utilise post workshop
Workshop 1 program description:
Take a deep dive into your body as we open up and activate your sexuality through somatic exploration of both the physical and energetic homes of our sexuality. This beautiful and powerful process invites you to drop deeply into the pelvis, the intricate musculoskeletal area of our body where not only our genitals, but also our sexual chakras reside. With deep connection to this magical area, we allow the process to unlock and release physical, emotional and sexual tension and stress and bring forth activation of our full sexuality. You will leave this workshop feeling limber in body and mind, and alive and activated through all the layers of your sexual self!
Workshop 2 Name:
Facial Alchemy OR The Mystical Face: A Tantric Face Ritual (not sure if the word tantra aligns in the festival as well so that could be omitted)
# of participants:
30
Workshop 2 duration:
90 Minute Workshop
Equipment needed:
speakers for music, cushions or mats for people to sit on. small cups or plates for a piece of fruit for each person & a small 'taste' size piece of fruit per person. silk scarves (1 between 2, i will provide) . gloves. an assistant open to the being a part of the demonstrations.
Workshop 2's Intention:
Awaken Curiosity and Sensual Exploration: Encourage participants to explore the face as a unique center of sensory experiences, sparking curiosity about its sensual potential.
Enhance Connection and Trust: Foster deeper connections between participants through rituals that involve trust and vulnerability, using sensory engagement and restriction.
Explore Power Dynamics Mindfully: Provide a safe space for exploring consensual power exchange, allowing participants to play with dynamics of control and surrender.
Cultivate Creativity in Sensual Play: Inspire participants to creatively engage with the senses of the face, blending touch, sound, sight, and other sensations.
Offer a Ritualistic Experience: Create a sacred, ritual-like atmosphere where participants can mindfully engage with themselves and others in a transformative way.
Workshop 2 rough format:
The workshop begins with a grounding exercise, inviting participants to connect with themselves through embodied exploration and gentle movement. This is followed by creating connection with others in the group to establish a sense of safety and ease within the nervous system. Once this foundation is set, participants will be invited to naturally find a partner in the room, or pair with their chosen partner.
Participants will be guided through the Facial Alchemy ritual step by step, with each aspect demonstrated before exploring it with a partner. Aspects of the ritual include facial touch, massage, (potential internal oral touch will be invited but not compulsory) sensory elements like taste, breathwork, and deep connection. Once familiar with the components, pairs will co-create a personalized mini ritual experience.
The workshop will close with time for reflection and an open space for participants to share their experiences, should they wish.
Workshop 2 program description:
Step into a journey of sensual discovery with me as we awaken the potential of your face through a rich, playful exploration of its sensory depths. This unique and intimate experience invites you to connect with the face—the gateway to many of our senses—and explore the profound effects of both engaging and gently restricting them. Through mindful touch and ritualistic play, we will unlock the alchemy of the face, transforming sensory awareness into a deeper connection with your creativity, curiosity, and sensuality. You’ll leave this workshop feeling more attuned to the subtleties of your face, and awakened to the sensual and erotic layers that flow through your face, and into everyday life.
Workshop 3 Name:
Osho Kundalini Meditation
# of participants:
As many as possible.
Workshop 3 duration:
1 Hour Morning Practice/Offering
Equipment needed:
speakers. cushions if people wish for the floor aspect.
Workshop 3's Intention:
The intention of Osho Kundalini Meditation is to facilitate the release of suppressed energy and emotions, promote relaxation, increase self-awareness, and ultimately, awaken the dormant spiritual energy known as Kundalini, leading to a higher state of consciousness and inner peace.
The first stage of Osho Kundalini Meditation, called "shaking," involves spontaneous, rapid movements, which help to dissolve blockages and tension in the body. This is accompanied by deep, catalytic breaths.
The second stage, "sitting in silence," is a transition from the physical to the spiritual. Participants sit with eyes closed, experiencing the energy flow and sensations in their bodies.
The third stage, "celebrating," is a time for expressing joy and gratitude, often through dance, song, or laughter. This helps to integrate the released energy and foster a sense of inner peace.
The final stage, "meditating," is a period of stillness and silence, allowing participants to absorb the benefits of the meditation and experience a deeper connection with themselves and the universe.
Workshop 3 rough format:
This workshop follows the Osho Kundalini meditation. It has a set format and set music.
Stage 1 - 15 minutes of shaking
Stage 2 - 15 minutes of open movement and dance
Stage 3 - 15 minutes of stillness, sitting
Stage 4 - 15 minutes of silence, laying down.
Workshop 3 program description:
In this 1-hour transformative journey, you'll practice a unique, dynamic meditation technique designed to awaken your Kundalini energy.
Through a series of guided exercises, you'll release physical tension, blocked emotions, and transition into stillness, experiencing the flow of energy within. Embrace joy and gratitude, integrating released energy, and conclude with a peaceful, silent meditation.
Leave feeling refreshed, rejuvenated, and connected to your inner self. No prior experience necessary – all are welcome!
Are you interested in/able to facilitate any other group experiences?
If something falls under my skillset i'd be happy to. also happy to co-host a temple or self pleasure space in the evening.
EO: Support space / info booth:
depending on workshop commitments possibly a shift.
Is there anything else that you would like us to know as organisers?
only what i shared post event feedback last time - knowing that things happen, as much as possible workshops not running over would be appreciated as last festival the workshop prior to mine ran overtime and prevented me being able to set up, and many participants choosing to go elsewhere because we could not access the space.