Kaggi Valentine
Kaggi
Valentine
Year of training:
2021
Related qualification:
CSSE CSB
How many and what type of workshops/classes have you previously facilitated?
oooddles, womens mysteries for 25+ years, FEAST twice, ASS FEST 2025, 7 Sisters about 6 times including opening and closing ceremonies, Eco Sexual retreats and 4+ years of Erotic Embodiment as 4 EE and for ISS
What qualities do you bring to your facilitation?
I think you know, inclusivity, humour, love, groundedness and playfulness.
What relevant skills and experience/qualifications do you have in addition to Sexological Bodywork?
STREAM, IEE (in training) years of therapy, embodiment practices and learning about IFS, learning more trauma informed skills always and also having facilitated Moon Quests awareness of group dynamics and importance of wholistic care.
Facilitator Bio
Kaggi Valentine. I am a Somatic Sex Educator, Eco-Sexual Pleasure Activist & Ceremonialist with over 25 years of experience in facilitating groups. I love the shared learning & magic that can happen in the group field & how co-regulation & orienting towards pleasure & play supports our growth, creativity and freedom. I am also a Trauma-Informed Scar Remediation Pelvic Care Specialist. An experienced & sensitive bodyworker I love working with both the ANS, genital mapping & pelvic centred care, with a particular emphasis on working with both physical & unseen (emotional) scars. I love supporting clients recover from numbness, birth injury, prolapse, trauma & all those who want to learn more about their genitals to access more pleasure. With a deep passion & respect for smooth muscle & its potential to unwind & heal, I am also on a bit of a mission to de-stigmatise & celebrate the often overlooked arsehole.
A lifelong learner I am a newly trained Interactive Erotic Educator & gently exploring how two way touch & my body can support my clients. Also passionate about breast care after having breast cancer in 2024 & in my newly menopausal body curious about the evolution of pleasure pathways through transitions & aging. https://www.kaggivalentine.com/
Workshop 1 Name:
Pillow Talk & Other Pleasures: Once Upon a Touch
# of participants:
as many as we can fit in the upstairs room welcome.
Workshop 1 duration:
Evening Experience
Equipment needed:
Mic, Cushions
Workshop 1's Intention:
Intentions:
To explore where erotic fiction meets somatic experience
Masturbate before bed (if desired)
Broaden the scope of what might be erotic fantasy and to notice how that feels in the body.
Weaving fantasy into erotic practice
To entertain, play and tease and satisfy before bedtime!
Workshop 1 rough format:
Co facilitated with Sam if she comes
Equipment required.
This workshop would need to be last on the nightly program up in the top room for warmth, the invitation would be for people to bring their pillow and any snuggle things and get cosy and be read to.
Loose format
To create a cosy environment where participants can bed down and if they choose to masturbate or touch themselves or just bask in the tales before bed.
Housekeeping: can touch self, if you come with another and you have a prearranged agreement can touch each other, do not engage with others in the session. Keep any self pleasure to a volume that does not interfere with the stories. No expectation to touch self etc… to enjoy
Invite brainstorming for how they might like to respond if the titillating tales before bedtime do not appeal, how they might like to take care of themselves.
To begin I would do a short body scan to awaken and open the senses, taste, sound, eyes,
Let the storytelling begin!
Will collect a range of short erotic tales that span genders, kinks and genres.
If this gets accepted in the FEAST build up we would love to invite participants who feel inspired to send me any erotic fiction they have written. We will set up an anonymous
Google form that people can submit their fantasies and promote on our platforms.
Could this turn into a FEAST piece of erotica in the future?
Workshop 1 program description:
Pillow Talk & Other Pleasures: Once Upon a Touch: We invite you into a late-night den of erotic imagination. Join Kaggi and Sam and slide under the covers and surrender to tantalising tales. Bring your pillow, get cosy, and let the words purr across your skin. You may listen, touch yourself or a consenting snuggle buddy, or simply drift in the shared field of pleasure as tales of desire, kink, and curiosity unfold. Not every story will appeal to everyone—no expectations, just an invitation to explore what feels delicious, alive and new. After all, how often do we get read to before bed? An X-rated twist on the good old bedtime story. Come snuggle in.
Does W1 actively invite nudity?
It's optional but not a central part
Workshop 2 Name:
Anal mASSage: naughty BUTT nice
# of participants:
depends on the space, could be a few
Workshop 2 duration:
2 Hour Workshop
Equipment needed:
Speaker, Mic, Cushions
Workshop 2's Intention:
Intentions and learnings
How to drop into and connect with another body with reverence
Feeling into hands,
Slow sensual massage techniques for the buttocks
The whys and art of checking in.
Giving feedback and feeling for yes’s and no’s as a receiver.
Why Including the anus in a massage can be so delightful!
Some techniques to awake the anal sphincters
Why teasing and being without agenda
Workshop 2 rough format:
House keeping and safety and time for giver and receiver to check in, verbal conversation about boundaries and limits (container creating) kind of pressure the person likes etc
Tuning into receiver and waking up the hands on the sacrum,
Guided into presence in both hands and into the sacrum and tailbone and connecting.
I will have a model to assist me.
Guided techniques
Part 1: Massaging the whole butt, with love and care and checking in with partner, re pressure.
Part 2: Including the rosebud. Techniques, teasing and listening.
Part 3: If internal touch is requested and the body says yes, entering the temple!
At each stage the giver checks in with receiver, if no can continue connecting with the butt and watch and listen or just watch.
People can come and just watch so although the invitation is to get naked to have butt massaged its not crucial. If this is better in a 90 minute slot I could do it with one giver and one receiver. We don't need to swap. I stll feel flexible about whether it might be better that way even with a two hour workshop. I also think this needs to be somewhere warm, preferably in the day a contained space to allow arseholes to relax. Question do I need to bring oil, gloves, etc.... I will need an arsesistant for this to be my body, Sam has said she is happy to do but if she is running a concurrent workshop I feel confident someone with offer themselves up.
Workshop 2 program description:
Anal mASSage: naughty BUTT nice
“Like all muscles, sphincters enjoy attention.” Chester Mainaird
You are invited to get cheeky with the cheeks and sexy with the sacrum as Kaggi guides you through the art of anal massage. Learn to connect deeply with your partner—or yourself—while massaging the whole butt, delighting the tender ring of the external sphincter, and, if the body opens, exploring gentle internal touch. Come solo or paired, to give, receive, or simply watch and learn. No pressure to get anywhere butt here, just curiosity, connection, and play.
Does W2 actively invite nudity?
Yes, it is a key part of the process
Workshop 3 Name:
Get Wild with the Divine: Animism, Pleasure & Sex Magic
# of participants:
any number the bigger the better
Workshop 3 duration:
90 Minute Workshop
Equipment needed:
Speaker, Mic, Cushions
Workshop 3's Intention:
Intentions
to draw on all the tools for EE/OY to open our sensual bodies to the Cosmos, the Elements and the Earth and channel them into self pleasure practice
Feeling for our erotic bodies as interconnected web, stars/earth/rivers/shared nervous systems of humans/drawing on the Sex Positive Space we co create
Learning more about how you might like to draw these energies in, breath practices and pelvic engagement as well as touch.
Expand your self pleasure/masturbation practice
Giving our creative, sensual energy to our own embodiment and also giving it to the Earth, humanity, and cosmos. Concept that we are in mutual exchange always and our pleasure is a prayer, political stand, gift to the Planet.
We receive and generate pleasure as an act of self love and a celebration.
Heart and body centred pleasure
Possibility to release any shame, stories.
Inviting nudity but again its not essential. Invitation to pleasure
Workshop 3 rough format:
I don't think this workshop should be done on a concrete floor, better in the day.
Engage with topic through guiding into animism
Inviting opening of sensual pathways.
Invitation to release
explore self pleasuring with music and guidance.
Offering for Creation
integration
Workshop 3 program description:
Animism offers us a worldview of interconnection, reciprocity, & relationship with the more-than-human world. What happens to our erotic aliveness when we play with ourselves with this consciousness? At its heart, animism invites sensual reciprocity & reverence with all that lives. Feel yourself as evolution embodied, pleasure as your birthright & the Universe touching itself through you. What if your pleasure were a prayer the Earth could feel? In our Sex Positive Community let yourself generate pleasure as an act of self love, a celebration of life and an offering to the Universe. Nudity, masturbation and/or resting in the arms of Creation welcome.
Does W3 actively invite nudity?
Yes, it is a key part of the process
Are you happy to facilitate support pods?
Fuck yes!
Are you interested in contributing to/facilitating at pre-retreat events
yes
Is there anything else that you would like us to know as organisers?