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Kai

Silver

Year of training:

2023

Related qualification:

Studying year 2 now of sexological bodywork.

How many and what type of workshops/classes have you previously facilitated?

Only been teaching solo clients at this stage. Planning to start running workshops as soon as I finish year 2 of sexbod in February 2025.

What qualities do you bring to your facilitation?

A warm open-minded and welcoming character able to facilitate crowd interaction and curiosity in a safe and fun space

What relevant skills and experience/qualifications do you have in addition to Sexological Bodywork?

By the time of the next Feast I will have done 2 year of sexological bodywork.
Worked as a professionally Dom for 7 years, as well as other sexwork related classes and courses including things like working with vaginismus and disabilities.
Doing research on chronic pain this year as well as learning how to support before and after giving birth (Doula) as a sexological bodyworker.

Facilitator Bio

My role is known as a vägledare, (or pathfinder) - a guide who helps illuminate the way to your deepest desires. Drawing from my experience with traditional Swedish massage, intimacy coaching, and somatic regulation, I also work with the shadows to enhance the journey by navigating pain, whether by overcoming it or embracing it. As well as working with disabilities, transitions, during and after pregnancy.

My approach to growth is rooted in making each journey both exciting and engaging. I believe in creating an environment where curiosity flourishes and every participant feels empowered to express themselves authentically.

Workshop 1 Name:

Exploring the Art and Pleasure of Rope Work (Shibari)

# of participants:

any

Workshop 1 duration:

90 Minute Workshop, 2 Hour Workshop

Equipment needed:

bowls/deep plates to put fruit and candy in

Workshop 1's Intention:

• learn basic rope safety and what to think about before starting.
• Learn 1 knot (and its evolutions if you already know it) and 1 technique to be able to encase the whole body with rope for fun/art/sex/pain/pleasure
• Learn how to play with the 5 senses, adding or removing sensations
• improve ropework by creating a fully immersed scene

Workshop 1 rough format:

• Starting with a teaching segment where the whole group learn about rope and the safety precautions to take beforehand.
• Watching and learn as I show and teach the knot on a model.
• Split into pairs or choose to do it solo and practice (or choose to be paired with another solo person).
• Further watch and learn instructions on the next technique.
• practise this in the same pair or solo (continue practise the first knot only if needing more time)
• Further watch and learn instructions on adding more elements such as sound and touch
• Continue practice in the same pairs or solo self-pleasure, now with touch and sound
• Final watch and learn instructions for adding taste and smell
• Continue practice now with all elements combined.

Workshop 1 program description:

Immerse yourself in the pleasure of rope work and create art as you play in this workshop, designed to enhance your understanding of rope safety, technique, and sensory play. Whether you’re interested in using rope for artistic expression, playful exploration, or intimate experiences, this workshop provides a comprehensive introduction to incorporating rope into your life, with a focus on enriching and manipulating all the senses.
Join me for an engaging exploration of rope work and sensory play, aimed at expanding your skills, deepening your understanding, and enhancing your creative and sensory experiences. Whether you’re new to rope work or looking to refine your techniques, this workshop offers valuable insights and practical skills to improve your flow and create a fully immersive scene/session/play.
You may attend with a partner (rope bunny) for practice or come solo to learn for self-pleasure. Solo attendees will have the opportunity to partner with others during the workshop.

Workshop 2 Name:

Mastering Chronic Pain: Understanding and Transforming Pain

# of participants:

any

Workshop 2 duration:

90 Minute Workshop

Equipment needed:

somewhere for people to sit comfortably while listening

Workshop 2's Intention:

• Learn about what chronic pain is and how it shows up differently.
• Learn what others have tried/what works for them
• Learn a technic to overcome/minimise chronic pain
• Experience the technique
• Learn how to teach others to overcome their pain

Workshop 2 rough format:

• Start with engaging everyone with a Bodyscan and encourage feeling for sensations such as pain
• teaching about chronic pain “study”
• everyone shares experiences, tips and tricks, engaging with each other’s stories
• Practice my technique and experience it (expanding from the initial bodyscan)
• Teaching how they can help others with their pain
• Time to reflect, share and ask more questions

Workshop 2 program description:

Chronic pain can affect our lives in profound ways, often becoming a constant companion that impacts our daily activities and overall well-being.
In this transformative workshop, you will gain an understanding of how pain functions within the body and mind. We will explore how pain signals are processed by the brain and why sometimes they persist beyond their necessary duration. This knowledge is crucial for developing strategies to manage and to overcome chronic pain.
Drawing on my personal journey of dealing with six years of chronic pain and overcoming it, I will share valuable insights and how I regained control over my own body and pain, and how you can teach yourself and others to the same.
This workshop is designed for anyone struggling with chronic pain and/or those who wish to understand and manage pain more effectively as well as teach others to deal with theirs. You will leave with a deeper awareness of pain mechanisms and practical tools to create the life you deserve.

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Are you interested in/able to facilitate any other group experiences?

EO: Support space / info booth:

Is there anything else that you would like us to know as organisers?

I'd like to come to learn as well as hold my workshops. however if there is a need for an extra hand then i am here to help out.

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